Ep 77: Is the household or a hotel a state?

The mindcrime liberty show discusses whether a  household or hotel become a "micro" state when it enforces certain rules, or any rules, within its boundaries?  If the hotel owners and management say no smoking in rooms and will  evict/fine you the cleaning cost if you engage in said behavior a kind of authoritarianism?  What if the father or mother in a family have a similar kind of rule within their own household which the children and those who visit must follow?   In both instances are these organizations becoming a microcosm of the state?  In the case of no alcohol or no weed it might be the case that the hotel/household is either voluntarily or involuntarily enforcing the states rules considering the state has a war on drugs of some kind but there is clearly a market for different tastes, lifestyles and preferences so some places might have different rules. What are the aspects of the state which are different then the household or the hotel?